Fix RuntimeError from dict/set mutation during iteration (#3159)

* Fix RuntimeError from dict/set mutation during iteration

Several collections are iterated while concurrent callbacks can
modify them, causing "Set/dictionary changed size during iteration"
RuntimeErrors:

- mass.py: _subscribers set iterated in signal_event() while
  subscribe/unsubscribe callbacks modify it
- mass.py: _providers dict iterated in get_provider() and
  _on_mdns_service_state_change() while providers load/unload
- player_controller.py: _players dict iterated in get_players(),
  get_player_by_name(), and update_player_control() while players
  register/unregister
- music.py: in_progress_syncs list iterated while done-callbacks
  call .remove() on it

Snapshot via list() before iterating in all affected locations.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <[email protected]>

* Fix additional dict mutation during iteration in mass.py

Snapshot via list() in three more locations where self._providers
or self._tracked_tasks are iterated while concurrent callbacks can
modify them: get_providers(), get_providers_by_domain(), and stop().

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <[email protected]>

* Fix dict mutation during iteration in webserver dynamic routes

Snapshot self._dynamic_routes.items() via list() in _handle_catch_all()
to prevent RuntimeError when routes are registered or unregistered by
providers while a request is being matched against prefix routes.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <[email protected]>

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Co-authored-by: David Bishop <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.6 <[email protected]>