Don't parse playlist items already in the database (#5916)

# What does this implement/fix?

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Loading an m3u/pls playlist ran a full ffprobe tag parse on every
referenced file, sequentially, whenever the playlist tracks cache was
cold - for a multi-thousand track playlist this delayed playback by many
minutes. Nearly all of those files are already synced into the library,
so prefer a database lookup per entry (like `get_album_tracks` and
`_get_stream_details_for_track` already do) and only fall back to tag
parsing for files not (yet) in the library.

**Related issue (if applicable):**

- related issue https://github.com/music-assistant/support/issues/6166

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Co-authored-by: Claude <[email protected]>